Pink Tulle with Feathers and Sequins: Just remember, in the winter...far beneath the bitter snow...lies the seed that with the sun's love, in the spring, becomes the rose...

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Just remember, in the winter...far beneath the bitter snow...lies the seed that with the sun's love, in the spring, becomes the rose...

Hey y'all. I wanted to check in here, for those of you that read this that hadn't heard yet. Yesterday I lost my husband, my best friend of 18 years, and the father of my children. This was sudden and unexpected, and we are all heartbroken over this loss.

We met when we were 12 years old, in the 8th grade. Our choir director matched us up to sing a duet at the upcoming talent show, and we have been inseparable ever since. We didn't date until the summer of 2001, and as soon as we started, I knew we were going to get married. This April would have been our 8th anniversary. I will miss sharing my life with him, sharing my every day with him, laughing with him, and I sure will miss his cooking. I can cook from a box. *trying to grin*

Here are the most recent pictures of him...the first one was in September at the Alamo:

This one was at the music program at school. I adore this picture.

Please pray for all of us, but especially my boys in these coming days and months. They adored their daddy, and there's a big empty spot in all of us right now. I don't really know what to say, other than thank you to the entire Splitcoast and stamping community for the amazing outpouring of love that has been gushing over us all day. We are so lucky to be covered in prayer by so many, and we appreciate it more than words can say.

I don't know what tomorrow holds, but I will try to post as I can. Hugs to all of you.

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Amy Sheffer said...: Shannan, you have been and will continue to be ever present in my thoughts and prayers. I'm so deeply saddened by your loss. Much love and hugs during this time of grief.; February 9, 2010 at 6:10 PM
Denise said...: Shannon, I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you and your boys are in my thoughts during this difficult time. With deepest sympathy. Denise; February 9, 2010 at 6:18 PM
Diane Jaquay said...: Shannan, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I cannot even imagine. My prayers are with you and your boys.; February 9, 2010 at 6:37 PM
Anonymous said...: Dear Shannan...
I've been following your wonderful work for sometime now and haven't commented in a long while.
May you and your boys find the courage through the love you have for him. Be well, safe and take care of yourselves as you go through this process.
Many hugs and much love,

Spike; February 9, 2010 at 6:46 PM
Kristie W. said...: My thoughts and prayers are with you, your boys and family. Hugs.; February 9, 2010 at 7:08 PM
Life Full of Sunflowers said...: Oh Shannon, I am so sorry to hear of this. I will keep you and your boys in my thoughts and prayers{{hugs}} your way.; February 9, 2010 at 7:11 PM
Jen said...: Shannan - I am heartbroken for you. You and your boys are in my thoughts and prayers!!; February 9, 2010 at 7:18 PM
Chris K said...: Shannan:

I am so sorry for your loss. Remember the happy times always and they will serve to comfort you through the sad ones. You and your boys are in my thoughts and prayers. May God be with you all.; February 9, 2010 at 7:20 PM
Angel said...: I'm truly so deeply sorry for your loss. I don't know what else to say except that I'll keep you and your boys in my prayers. {{{{{BIG HUGS}}}}}; February 9, 2010 at 7:21 PM
Sharon said...: Shannon, as you and your boys deal with the loss of your husband, their daddy, please know that you are not alone. You are constantly surrounded in love and prayer. Remember one day at a time....; February 9, 2010 at 8:16 PM
Holly said...: Oh Shannan! My heart goes out to you and your family. I'm in shock and I'm sure everything is just a big fog for y'all right now. Hugs and prayers, sweetie!!; February 9, 2010 at 8:31 PM
Michelle said...: Shannon

My deepest, deepest sympathy goes out to you and your boys. I feel your pain and loss, I myself lost my first husband in 1995, he was only 28 and we had been together since I was 14 and he was 18.

Please know that the sun will come out again one day but in the mean time, we are thinking of you all.

Kindest regards
Michelle (Australia); February 9, 2010 at 8:32 PM
Kathy Jones said...: I can't even begin to imagine what you and your boys are going through right now. I heard the news at SCS and our thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family over the coming weeks, may you find comfort knowing that there is a huge outpouring of love for you all.; February 9, 2010 at 8:41 PM
Janet said...: Oh I am SO sorry. Words do not come to me as to what would comfort you. As for the boys, I lost my Mom when I was 9 and it was sudden, too. Back in the early 70s therapy just wasn't too big yet. I would recommend some kind of grief counseling for all of you. That age is so hard. I actually thought that my Mom died because I had been bad somehow. Kids don't have the reasoning that we do as adults. Make sure that they realize that they didn't do anything to cause it. My prayers are with you all.; February 9, 2010 at 8:44 PM
Anonymous said...: Shannan, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. You and your boys are in my thoughts and prayers!! {BIG HUGS} and much love :); February 9, 2010 at 8:44 PM
Sherona Crim said...: You have my deepest sympathy and the strength of my prayers for you and the boys. May God bless you.; February 9, 2010 at 9:21 PM
Unknown said...: Shannon, I visit your beautiful blog often and have always admired your wonderful and amazing talent. Even though you don't know me just know this...When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. Thinking of you and your beautiful boys today and lifting you all up in prayer.

~Donna; February 9, 2010 at 9:27 PM
redstamper7 said...: Oh Shannon, you and the boys, will be the top of my prayer list. My husband died last summer leaving our then 12- and 14-year sons as broken hearted as myself. I can tell you some days are sure long, but every morning I tell myself those kids deserve all the love their Mother can share. Friends and family are incredible. God be with you.; February 9, 2010 at 9:28 PM
Anonymous said...: I didn’t read all the comments Shannan, I don’t have to, the amount of time for me to scroll through the comments I know everything has been said. There are no words that can comfort you at this time. Time and memories will be your best friend. They will be hard and they will be trying. The Lord will have to comfort you, you will need his comfort. If I can say one thing, it is to embrace this comfort. Friends are great, and they are needed. They are needed very much, but God will be the one that has to put you back on your way to 'living' your life. I feel pain for your loss. I pray that God will give you strength, that God will give you peace and that God will give you closure. I pray for you and your children, I know it's a hard day and a long road, but I know God can give you peace and hope. I am thinking about you, and praying for you. I am sure it has been said, but if you need anything from an old friend, I am here do not hesitate to let me know.
Jason - Jray; February 9, 2010 at 9:45 PM
Patti Chesky said...: Shannan, I cannot even imagine what you and your boys are feeling right now. Please know that there are so many of us who are embracing you with our thoughts and prayers. We are here for you when you need us!!!! {hugs}; February 9, 2010 at 10:09 PM
KAT said...: I can't even begin to image what you must be going through.. I am sending you a cyber hug and hope that you and your boys can find some comfort from your family and friends.; February 9, 2010 at 10:23 PM
Shelly Koskinen said...: I am so sorry for your heartbreaking loss. I will be praying for you and your family.; February 9, 2010 at 10:44 PM
Dawn McVey said...: Oh Shannan, my heart just breaks for you and the boys. I am so, so sorry. I can't begin to imagine what you're going thru but I'll be praying that God will comfort your hurting hearts and will help you through this horrible time of loss.

Much love,
Dawn; February 9, 2010 at 10:59 PM
Jackie said...: Shannan, I am so very sorry. You and the boys will be in my thoughts and prayers. {{{hugs}}}; February 9, 2010 at 11:10 PM
Martha said...: Shannon I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your sweet boys. I wish you strength and courage in this difficult time.; February 9, 2010 at 11:34 PM
Linda Carson said...: May God's grace carry you & your sons through these days. You're family will be in my prayers.; February 9, 2010 at 11:53 PM
Paula Laird said...: Shannan, I don't know you, but i feel like I do from your posts. I pray that you and the boys feel God holding you in the palm of His hand.; February 9, 2010 at 11:57 PM
SweetMissDaisy (Anna Wight) said...: Oh, dear Shannan, my heart aches for you and your boys... if there is anything I can do for you, please get in touch. Big hugs, my friend!; February 9, 2010 at 11:58 PM
Anthonette said...: Shannan, so sorry to hear about your husband passing away. I'm thinking about you and your boys and sending a huge virtual hug from California.; February 10, 2010 at 12:10 AM
Heather (SCS Isaiah40:31) said...: At a loss for the right words - just know that your family is being held up in prayer by so many who care - even though we've never met your wonderful spirit shines through your cards and your posts. That spirit and your sweet boys will be a blessing to you as you recover from this great loss. Prayers and hugs Shannan...; February 10, 2010 at 12:16 AM
Liz Williams said...: Sweet Shannan, we all ache from this tragic news. You and your precious sons are in my prayers and will continue to be. You have touched many people in this wonderful stamping community, and we share your tears and your pain.; February 10, 2010 at 12:28 AM
Craft Accident said...: Shannan,

Thinking of you each day, and wishing you peace. Your loss is one I can not imagine. While your boys have lost their father they have an amazing, joyful, loving mother who I am sure will help them get through the difficult time ahead. I will keep my ears/eyes open if there is anything you need... xoxo; February 10, 2010 at 12:34 AM
Lindsey Martins said...: I'm so very sorry for your family's loss. You will be in my prayers.; February 10, 2010 at 2:54 AM
Anonymous said...: Shannan, my heart goes out to you and your boys. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and hope that your wonderful memories give you strength when you need it most.

Jo R.; February 10, 2010 at 3:09 AM
Leslie Miller said...: Oh, Shannan, I'm so sorry. My heart breaks for you. I can't imagine how this has devastated you and your boys. I know you are strong but, please, take advantage of the friends who are saying "lean on me". Bless your heart.; February 10, 2010 at 3:16 AM
Anne said...: Dear Shannan, You and your boys will be in my prayers. I lost my mom to cancer when I was 8 years old, and so your boys will be especially in my heart. God bless you all.; February 10, 2010 at 3:39 AM
Wendy aka Wendybell said...: Bless you, Shannan, and thank you for sharing the pictures. Hugs and prayers to all of you, girlfriend.; February 10, 2010 at 4:52 AM
Sherri Thacker said...: I will continue to pray for you and the boys during this very difficult time. I'm so sorry!!; February 10, 2010 at 4:54 AM
dj said...: Even in your tears and hours of grief....I hope you can feel the love and support of your friends out here in blog land....love and prayers during this time of loss!!; February 10, 2010 at 5:24 AM
Dorothy said...: Sending thoughts and prayers for you, your boys, and your extended family. May God grant you needed strength and comfort.
(etsdas on SCS); February 10, 2010 at 6:16 AM
Michele Kovack said...: I am sooooo sorry for your loss.......you and your sweet boys are in my prayers......; February 10, 2010 at 6:16 AM
Carol (HB) said...: Shannan, I am so sorry. My heart just breaks for you and your family! Please know I am sending prayers and hugs for you during the days ahead.; February 10, 2010 at 6:29 AM
Dawn said...: Shannan...I'm keeping you and the boys in thought and prayer. I can't imagine what you're going through and have to face ahead of you. Sending big hugs from Ohio; February 10, 2010 at 7:06 AM
Katie Cotton said...: sending you all the love and support in the world. Big hugs and prayers to you hun.; February 10, 2010 at 7:10 AM
Francie G. said...: God bless you and your precious boys. You are in my prayers. Hugs, Fran; February 10, 2010 at 7:30 AM
Vicky Gould said...: Hi Shannon - I lost my husband unexpectantly a little over a year ago. I do know what you're going through and my love and prayers go to you and your kids. I was luckier than you as my kids were all married and settled. Your little guys need you so much right now and they will keep you busy and bring comfort to you. God bless and sustain you all.

Big hugs.; February 10, 2010 at 7:50 AM
Sabrina Jackson said...: Shannon, simple words can not express how saddened I am to hear of the loss of your DH, your rock! May God wrap his loving and caring arms around you and your precious boys! It may not be easy, but nobody said it would, but know that GOD will lift you up and give you comfort. I will keep you, the boys an your extended family in my prayers. Big {{{HUGS}}} and prayer, Sabrina; February 10, 2010 at 7:50 AM
Anonymous said...: Shannon, I just wanted to let you and your family know my thoughts and prayers are with you. So sorry for your loss.; February 10, 2010 at 8:18 AM
Mark's Finest Papers said...: Shannon, we have you and your family in our prayers.; February 10, 2010 at 8:53 AM
Grace said...: Shannan my heart is bleeding for you and your boys! I am praying that God just wraps His loving arms around you and gives you comfort during the difficult days ahead! May He be your refuge and strength!!!
Hugs and prayers,
Grace; February 10, 2010 at 10:45 AM
sueincanada said...: My deepest sympathy to you and your boys. I'm so sorry for your loss.; February 10, 2010 at 11:50 AM
Bev J. said...: Hi, am so very sorry for your loss. I remember your smiling face from different posts I have read at SCS. May God protect you and your boys with his loving touch. Bev J. (Maxell on SCS); February 10, 2010 at 12:39 PM
Cre8tive Granny said...: Please know that all of you will be in our thoughts and daily prayers. May God bless you with comfort as you go forward. Having your husband and friend and strong marriage will be such a comfort as the days go by. Sounds like you really are a blessed woman. We wish you comfort and a continued sweet life from now forward.; February 10, 2010 at 12:47 PM
Mary Giles said...: Shannon I just saw this over at Mercy's blog and I'm so sorry. I'll be keeping you and your boys in my thoughts for easier days ahead.; February 10, 2010 at 1:00 PM
Becca Feeken said...: Shannan, my condolences to you and your family. I will certainly say a prayer for you and your boys. May you find peace and comfort during this very difficult time.; February 10, 2010 at 2:31 PM
Chrisd said...: So saddened to hear about the death of your husband. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your boys and the entire family .; February 10, 2010 at 2:38 PM
Susan said...: I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I can't even begin to imagine what you and your boys must be feeling right now. I know I don't have the right words for you now but just know that there are people out here to care about you.
Susan; February 10, 2010 at 3:08 PM
Anonymous said...: Wow--thinking of you and praying for your family. Tough days ahead, but you are loved!; February 10, 2010 at 3:59 PM
Kris said...: I'm so sorry for your loss. May you and your children find peace in the beautiful memories you have of Josh.; February 10, 2010 at 5:11 PM
Marie Bingaman said...: Shannan, I am so sorry to hear this sad news. I cannot imagine how you and your boys are feeling right now, but rest assured that God is right there with you at this difficult time. (((((HUGS))))) to you all...; February 10, 2010 at 5:49 PM
Angie Tieman said...: Oh my word, Shannan, I had no idea. I am so sorry to hear this, my heart breaks for you and your sons. I lost my father unexpectedly when I was 12 and I know as a child you never get over that. I am sending you my hugs and prayers. Feel the Lord's love and strength and know that you are not alone, ever, and you will see your dear husband again one day.; February 10, 2010 at 7:01 PM
Sharron said...: My thoughts and prayers are with you and your boys. I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. May you find some peace in all the wonderful memories. Take care!; February 10, 2010 at 7:39 PM
Bere said...: Shannan I'm so sorry for what you are going thru my heart and my prayers are with you and if there is anything at all that you need please let me know, all of your friends and family are with you and I know there is nothing I can say to you to relive your pain I'm deeply sorry i'm here for you Bere; February 10, 2010 at 8:23 PM
Anonymous said...: Dear Shannon,

No words can express our sadness on your loss. Know that our prayers, thoughts and hopes of strength are with you and the boys.

The Whipper Snapper Family
John & Lisa Bryson; February 10, 2010 at 10:11 PM
Martha said...: Just leaving off a quick hug while I think of you today.; February 10, 2010 at 11:04 PM
jovialjudi said...: Oh my Shannan. I don`t even know what to say so will just speak from my heart. I am so sorry to hear of the tragic loss of your husband and best friend. You have my heartfelt sympathy. I will be keeping you and your boys in my thoughts and prayers. If you need anything at all please don`t hesitate to ask me for help!!! God Bless. Sending hugs and love, Judi; February 10, 2010 at 11:29 PM
Katie said...: Shannan, I don't even know what to say. My heart aches for you and your boys. It is my prayer that you will find peace and know that you are not alone. Katie; February 11, 2010 at 12:47 AM
Alli Miles said...: Hey girl--just wanted you to know you and the boys remain on the top of our prayer list! Again, just let me know what we can do to help you and don't forget to lean on Him.; February 11, 2010 at 12:58 AM
Justine said...: Whoa, I was just stopping by to admire all of your creativity. I am deeply saddened and touched that you took the time to post these photos and let your blog friends know. I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Prayer of Comfort and Grace will be said for you and your family. Hugz from the island of Sicily; February 11, 2010 at 5:23 AM
Kathie Tice said...: I am so sorry for your loss. I will pray for all of you. I have three boys and can't imagine our life without my husband. May God hold you all in the palm of His hand.; February 11, 2010 at 5:53 AM
Eva said...: Shannan, I am so sorry for your loss, it's tough to understand why things happen when they do. May you find peace during these difficult days! I am sending you Love and Light to comfort you and your sweet boys.; February 11, 2010 at 8:58 AM
Allison Cope said...: My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children as you celebrate your husband's life. Many hugs...; February 11, 2010 at 10:27 AM
Jaya Christina said...: Hi. I am so sorry about your loss. May the love of the Lord embrace you and your sons. God be with you.; February 11, 2010 at 11:51 AM
Darsana said...: Shannan, I am so sad to hear this news. I wish the best for your and your boys and I hope that the road ahead for you will be an easy one for a while. No matter what happens, I can see by all the comments here that you have the love and support of your online community as well as the people in your everyday life. You are in my thoughts always, but especially over the next few days as you deal with the hard parts of life. God Bless and please know you are loved.; February 11, 2010 at 12:12 PM
Janelle Stollfus said...: Sweet precious one, I'm so heartbroken to hear of your loss. Rest in the arms of the Lord, just ask him and he will take care of all your situation. I'll be praying for you and your boys.; February 11, 2010 at 2:53 PM
Anonymous said...: May you feel God wrap you and your family in His loving arms and cover you with His strength, comfort and peace. My heart goes out to you, you're in my thoughts and prayers.; February 11, 2010 at 6:44 PM
Unknown said...: Please know that I am sending love and prayers...and BIG HUGS! I am so very sorry for your loss.; February 11, 2010 at 8:40 PM
Lisa said...: I'm so sorry to hear this. You don't know me, and I only know you through this blog, but I'm still sitting here crying for you.

I have no magic words. Just know that we're all out here thinking of you. Sending you and your boys love.; February 11, 2010 at 9:30 PM
Debbi T said...: Know that all your "SCS friends" near and far are thinking of you during this most difficult time. I am praying for you all and know that somehow you will find the strength to go on.

Huge hugs.; February 11, 2010 at 9:40 PM
Anonymous said...: Shannan, you and your handsome boys and family are in my thoughts and prayers. You and your family are much too young to have such a loss at this time in your life. May God's peace be with you, and the love, prayers and faith of your family, friends, and acquaintances comfort you during this difficult time.God bless you all.; February 12, 2010 at 1:28 AM
Sharon said...: Shannan,

So sorry to hear your sad news, may you find strength in the love of family and friends.
You are in my thoughts.

Sharon x; February 12, 2010 at 4:27 AM
jhet said...: Shannan, eventhough we don't know each other personally, I've somehow known you with the cards that you're creating. Our deepest condolences to you and your family. May God strengthen you as you go through this situation. Will remember you in my prayers.

God bless you always.

/jhet (tommygirloz @ SCS); February 12, 2010 at 7:02 AM
Tosha Leyendekker said...: So, so sorry Shannan!! What beautiful pictures for you and your boys to treasure!! I've been praying for you continually!! HUGS!!; February 12, 2010 at 10:31 AM
Stacy Morgan said...: Oh Shannon I am so sorry, my prayers are going out to you and the boys. Hugs.. God bless... Stacy; February 12, 2010 at 11:12 AM
Terri D. said...: My deepest sympathy Shannon! I pray that the Lord will be with you and your family each and every breath of the way.
Blessings,
Terri D.; February 12, 2010 at 11:55 AM
America said...: Hi Shannan. I too am someone you dont know who sits here in disbelief and complete sadness for you. Im so very sorry for your sudden loss. Those pictures are truly adorable. Please know that many are thinking of you and sending you {{HUGS}} and prayers. May GOD give you and your precious boys all his love and strength and courage to get throught this difficult time. :); February 12, 2010 at 12:52 PM
Rona said...: Shannan - I am so sorry! I can't imagine what you must be feeling so I am praying right now that God gives you comfort, peace and that you feel HIS loving arms around you during this incredibly difficult time.; February 12, 2010 at 3:03 PM
Lovely Linda said...: Dear Shannon, it is evident by the number of messages and the content of them that you are a special lady...so may people are praying for you and your boys. I am so deeply sorry to hear of this loss of your darling Josh and although nothing that we say can take away your pain, I do join with the hundreds of others who are praying for you all. God is near to the brokenhearted, He is as close as your next breath! I pray Shannon that you will know His comfort and peace as you and your boys grieve. God bless you Shannon,I too married my best friend and could not imagine life without him - your story has touched my heart deeply. God bless you Shannon! {{{{hugs}}}} from Australia....you are on everyone's heart around the world today!; February 12, 2010 at 5:44 PM
Priscilla said...: I do not really know you, but I would like to give you my condolences. I can only imagine the pain you are having to deal with..You and your family are in my prayers.
God bless you and you childern.
Priscilla; February 12, 2010 at 5:59 PM
Robynccgirl said...: I'm crying here for your loss. I'm so sorry for you and your boys. Please know I am praying for you guys.; February 12, 2010 at 6:02 PM
Sareeta G. said...: Shannan,
You don't know me but I have been following your blog regularly...I am so sorry to hear of your sudden loss. It grieves me more than I can say. You both sounded like such good friends as well as spouses and parents. I pray that in the coming days ahead you have enough strength for your own loss as well as the loss for your children.
You are in my thoughts...; February 12, 2010 at 6:09 PM
Cheryl said...: Shannan....you don't know me, but I've stopped by a couple times to check out your creations, and I just wanted to say, that I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you, your boys, your family and friends in hopes that you will find comfort from all of your memories with him....take care **hugs** ~Cheryl; February 12, 2010 at 8:58 PM
CarlaKH said...: I am so sorry ....sending prayers and strength your way...; February 12, 2010 at 11:43 PM
Jodi C. said...: Shannan, I am SO SORRY to hear of your loss!!! I have been to your blog numerous times, but you probably don't know me. Still, we are both "sisters" in this online stamping community. My thoughts are with you and your boys as you go through this time, as I can tell MANY others are by the number of posts here. I LOVE that you shared this post with all of us, thank you. I am so glad you have all of those beautiful memories, they will always be with you.
{{BIG HUGZ}}
-Jodi; February 13, 2010 at 12:41 AM
LORi said...: Shannan...My heart is aching for you and your sweet boys!! Please know that I am will will continue praying for you daily!!
I pray for our Heavenly Father to hold you in his arms and engulf you and your babies in supernatural peace, the kind that surpasses all understanding and only come from Him!! Keep your eyes on Him, Put Him first in ALL you do and He WILL take care of the rest!! Know that all your stamping sisters are holding hands around the world and interceding in your behalf. When you feel you can't stand on your own...let Him hold you!!

Love & Blessings - LORi; February 13, 2010 at 2:08 AM
Anonymous said...: Dearest Shannan,
Although I have not spent time with you, I have come to love your parents and all of your family through them. Your tragedy has touched so many of us who know you through them. Our prayers will continue for you and your children as you struggle to start a new life.; February 13, 2010 at 6:01 AM
Unknown said...: Shannon- I am so sorry to hear this. I don't even know what else to say except for that I am sorry.; February 13, 2010 at 10:58 AM
CarrollAnn (~CA~) said...: You and your boys are in my prayers, and, I can see, the prayers of many!!; February 13, 2010 at 11:10 AM
debbies said...: May God bless you and your family!; February 13, 2010 at 1:22 PM
Jeni C Slack (^0^) said...: Shannon, I can't even begin to fathom what you are going through right now, I will be praying for your family to have strength to go through this hard time. And blessing be poured in because Heavenly Father knows you need it right now. We at the card making community, and at the Midnight Madness Design Team send ALL our LOVE to you, hugs ~Jeni & MMSC DT; February 13, 2010 at 5:24 PM
Sharon (notimetostamp) said...: Shannan, I am so, so sorry to hear this devastating news. You and your children are most definitely in my prayers. Take care.; February 13, 2010 at 6:37 PM
Annette Bowes said...: Hi Shannon, you don't know me but I visited the Lovely Linda and heard, just wanted to send cyber hugs to you and your boys, you are in our thoughts, he certainly looked a lovely handsome man and I am sure will be greatly missed by many. Take CareX:); February 13, 2010 at 10:24 PM
Jana Weaver said...: Dear Shannon,
what can I say taht hasn't already been said? You and your boys are in my thoughts - you have my deepest sympathies!; February 13, 2010 at 11:09 PM
Anonymous said...: Oh Shannan, you and your boys are in our thoughts, hearts and prayers!! There are no right words, I am sure... keep God close to your heart and let your Him and your faith guide you through this. I am so, so sorry!; February 14, 2010 at 12:59 PM
Kristin Moore said...: Shannan, I'm just heartbroken for you! What a sad time for you and your boys. I'm sorry you are going through this and for your loss! Hugs!; February 14, 2010 at 6:56 PM
jen said...: Shannan,
You are, without a doubt, in my prayers tonight. I am so sorry to hear of your loss.; February 15, 2010 at 12:36 AM
Renee' Morris-Dezember said...: Shannan, you & your family are in my thoughts & prayers...; February 15, 2010 at 9:04 AM
Tricia said...: Oh, Shannon, bless your heart. My own heart is breaking for you and your boys as I sit here in tears. I pray for strength and wisdom as you deal with the necessary details. I pray that you will be able to sleep at night and that you will experience the "peace that passes understanding" as you wait for time to dull the ache, and that you will be comforted so that you can comfort your sweet boys. With much love, Tricia (simplystamping); February 15, 2010 at 12:50 PM
Scrappy said...: I am so sorry for your loss! Prayers to you and your boys!; February 16, 2010 at 12:21 AM
Scrappy said...: I am so sorry for your loss! Prayers to you and your boys!; February 16, 2010 at 12:22 AM
Scrappy said...: I am so sorry for your loss! Prayers to you and your boys!; February 16, 2010 at 12:22 AM
Michelle said...: This comment has been removed by the author.; February 16, 2010 at 6:41 AM
Michelle said...: Shannan,
Words cannot being to express my sadness for you and your boys and the terrible loss you have suffered. May God's peace live in your heart and may the many joyful memories you made together live in your minds. Lifting you up in prayer and sending our deepest condolences to you and your family.

With You In Prayer,
Michelle; February 16, 2010 at 6:44 AM
Cindy Haffner said...: Shannan, my heart goes out to you, a big Hug to you and your boys!!!; February 16, 2010 at 10:25 AM
Nerina said...: Praying for you, feeling for you, so sad for you. I am so sorry that you are having to travel this hard road - and cannot have any comprehension about just HOW hard it must be for you. I pray that you will be surrounded by true friends to love and care for you at this time. {{{HUGS}}} - I am a stranger to you - but I truly wish you well.; February 16, 2010 at 11:47 AM
Sandy said...: I am deeply sorry for your loss. I hope you find some comfort in knowing you and your boys are in the thoughts and prayers of so many.; February 16, 2010 at 10:13 PM
Unknown said...: Oh, my heart aches to hear that this has happened and I send many prayers to you and your family. May his precious memories bring you comfort in time. {{Hugs}} from AZ.; February 17, 2010 at 12:08 AM
Mothermark said...: Oh Shannon! I am so saddened to hear of this! I will keep you in my prayers and hope that you and your boys can cherish your memories and take comfort in the wonderful times you shared with your husband. My heart is heavy for you.

Sending big hugs, best wishes, and my thoughts and prayers. We are here for you.....

Love and Hugs.
Cindy (Mothermark); February 17, 2010 at 4:21 AM
shulsart said...: Oh,my gosh, Shannon. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your boys. Cyber hugs.; February 17, 2010 at 8:44 AM
Lori said...: Shannon,
May you & your children find comfort in the love that surrounds you today, tomorrow and always!!!
Lori; February 17, 2010 at 8:56 AM
Anonymous said...: I'm so sorry Shannon. He's smiling down, and watching over you and your children now. I can't even imagine what you're feeling, I'm just so sorry this has happened to you and your family. I hope each day that passes get better and your memories bring you and family comfort.; February 17, 2010 at 5:54 PM
Anonymous said...: I don't really know you, other than I see your posts and creations over at SCS. I stumbled on to your blog for the first time today and read about your loss. I know there's no words that can take away the pain and grief you have to be feeling right now. I can't even begin to imagine the sorrow. But please know that alot of people are thinking of you and praying for you, praying that God gives you strength and courage to continue on despite the heartache. I wish for peace for you and your boys.

-Tish a/k/a GaMtnScrap; February 17, 2010 at 10:06 PM
Pam Varnell said...: Oh Shanna I am so sorry for your loss. You and your boys are in my thoughts and prayers. Love you girl.

Pam; February 17, 2010 at 10:40 PM
Shana said...: Shannan - there are no words for what you and your boys are going through right now yet I will try to find them anyway. Life can be hard for no apparent reason and we struggle to understand that which there is no explaination. One day in the future you will smile again and hear your boys laugh, but for now, I hope that the warm wishes of the stamping community, your friends, and your family, wraps you in warmth and comfort to help you through this. You are in my thoughts and prayers more than you know.; February 18, 2010 at 1:31 AM
Bethany Paull said...: Oh Shannan. I read this a couple of days ago and didn't comment because I didn't even know what to say. But please know I am shocked and hurting for you. I can only imagine how difficult this must be for you and your family. I love you sweetie and am thinking of you with a hopeful heart.; February 18, 2010 at 10:32 AM
Lynn said...: Shannan, I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your boys. May your memories give you peace now and always. Lifting you up in prayer.; February 18, 2010 at 7:08 PM
Betsye Rose said...: My heart breaks for you. My husband died suddenly 12 years ago when my kids were 9 months old and almost 3...and I still cry for him. I hope you can cry and then have periods of smiling. I smile a lot more than I cry now, but it seems like the first few months all I did was cry, and that's OK. Sending hugs your way.; February 18, 2010 at 10:24 PM
Elaine M said...: Oh Shannon - I am so sorry - there aren't enough words to express how we feel and how much we love you and your family. You will be in our hearts and prayers. One day at a time.....; February 19, 2010 at 2:13 AM
Ruth said...: This is the first time I've visited your blog and came to see your lovely cards...then I read your very sad news and just want to tell you that you will be in my thoughts and prayers,as will your little boys. I was just 12 when I lost my own father. Praying for you all, Ruth x; February 19, 2010 at 3:40 AM
Corie said...: So sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.; February 19, 2010 at 11:19 AM
Stacy said...: Dear Shannon. I know I've already posted something to FB, but just wanted to let you know, again, that my thoughts are with you and your boys. More {{{{{Hugs}}}}} and continued love and good thoughts to you all.
Love,
Stacy
AKA: Aznewmom; February 19, 2010 at 1:50 PM
Rachel Moss said...: Shannan, I found your blog through your FB page. I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. You and your boys are in my prayers.; February 20, 2010 at 8:38 AM
Crafty Math Chick said...: Oh my gosh Shannan! How horrible! I am so terribly, terribly sorry for your loss! I wish I knew some magic words to say to make things better, but I just don't, but I am sending lots of love and positive thoughts and prayers and hugs your way and hope they provide some comfort.

~Meredith; February 21, 2010 at 11:13 AM
Jennifer said...: I just popped onto your blog because I love all your wonderful creations. I'm so sorry to hear about your sudden loss. I will be praying for you and your family though this difficult time.; February 21, 2010 at 6:06 PM
msfitzie said...: I'm in Okla City....if you need anything you just holler and I'll be there in a sec. You don't know me but I'm sending you my love and prayers for you and your boys.; February 21, 2010 at 8:18 PM
Emma said...: Shannan I have come over from Sparkles blog, I am so sorry to hear of you losing your husband & your boys their daddy. My heart, thoughts & prayers go out to you and your family.
I lost my dad very suddenly in Sept so I can relate to how devasting it is from a daughter point of view.
Sending you hugs xxx; February 22, 2010 at 1:38 AM
specialcraftmom4 said...: Sending prayers to you and your sweet children. May God comfort you and your boys. I am so sorry.; February 22, 2010 at 4:34 PM
Nancy said...: So sorry to hear of your loss, Shannon. Thoughts and prayers going out to you and your family.; February 22, 2010 at 5:29 PM
Nicole said...: Shannan, I am so sorry to learn of this.
I had you in my side bar as one of my favorites and then changed my URL on Feb 2nd and lost my list!
I just can't imagine what you are going through but please know that I am praying for you and your sons.
I will add you to my church's prayer chain, too, so know that there are Hoosiers praying for comfort for you and your family.
My deepest sympathies, Shannan, Nicole; February 23, 2010 at 7:49 AM
Kristie W. said...: Still sending lots of hugs and prayers.; February 23, 2010 at 6:57 PM
Mary J said...: Hello Shannon. I hope that you are finding strength wherever you can find it. I can't imagine what you are going through - all I know is that I would be devastated to lose my hubby (we've been together for 13 years). My thoughts are with you {hug}; February 24, 2010 at 1:44 PM
Kim said...: Shannon, I'm so sorry for the loss of your husband. I will add my prayers to the many already going up for you and your children. A good husband and father is irreplaceable. My heart aches for you.; February 24, 2010 at 3:43 PM
Betty J Schaub said...: Shannon and Sons, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Josh was so young! God Bless you and the boys and May He Hold You All In The Palms of HIS Hands.

Huggies,
Betty aka ZacksNana; February 25, 2010 at 3:21 PM
Velta said...: Huge Hugs to you and your boys!!! Prayers coming your way. I can see what kind of message you should be getting from the stamping world! You are being thought of in ways you will never know. God Bless and May He Keep You in His Arms Forever!; February 26, 2010 at 9:24 AM
Anonymous said...: I am so sorry for your loss! I can't imagine the pain you and your family are experiencing. I just heard about this.Please know I'll be praying for you, your children, and those who love your husband. I am thankful you have our Father's strong and gentle arms to rest in. Praying for His peace to reign in your hearts.
With Love and Prayers,
Marlene; February 27, 2010 at 6:39 PM
Christy Croll (tiddly inks) said...: Shannan,
I haven't really known what to say, but I really wanted you to know that you and your boys are in my heart and prayers at this very difficult time. You are a special person and I hope peace and love find their way to your home and ease some of the ache you must be feeling. My thoughts will continue to be with you.
XOXOXO
Christy; March 1, 2010 at 5:26 PM
Callie said...: I don't know where I've been but I just saw this. I can't even imagine something so heartbreaking. All of my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your boys especially.; March 1, 2010 at 7:17 PM
Kelly Booth said...: So Sorry for your loss...I know what your going through first hand...it takes a lot of time to heal....
You will be in my thoughts and prayers for the coming months!! Hang in there sweetie....; March 2, 2010 at 12:43 PM
Melody (lacyquilter) said...: I've obviously been under a rock. I just found this. I am so very sorry for your heartrending loss. Sending you big hugs.; March 3, 2010 at 10:01 PM
Whimsey said...: Thinking of you and praying!!!; March 4, 2010 at 4:41 PM
Christine Blain said...: Oh, Shannan, my heart breaks for you and your little boys. I haven't been to visit your blog for a while, and was shocked to read your post about losing your beautiful, much-loved, husband. Love and hugs from Australia. I am so sorry, and just want you to know that you are in the minds and hearts of many from even this far away.; March 5, 2010 at 3:47 AM
Melissa Bickford said...: Shannan, I just came across your blog today. I am so very sorry for your loss! You and your sons will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers! (((hugs))); March 7, 2010 at 11:36 AM
jharrison said...: Miss you and your wonderful creations--hope things are looking up for you!; March 9, 2010 at 12:42 PM
Rosie said...: Shannan...you are such a stron woman...with great inspiration. Please accept this prize. Please visit my blog.; March 19, 2010 at 9:12 PM
Anonymous said...: Just a note to say you are still in my thoughts today and everyday. May you find peace in your heart and comfort in knowing that you and your boys are in the prayers of many who know you and those of us who only know you through your blog. Peace of the Lord be with you always.
Diana Bell; March 19, 2010 at 11:09 PM
pegp@qwestoffice.net said...: Hi, I was just surfing and found your blog. My dad died when I was 4 (55 yrs ago). I was the oldest of three. Now, being a parent, I admire the job my mom did. She brought us up to feel our fathers love. After my mom passed away last April, I found this poem. I hope it comforts you and the boys. God bless you on your new journey. Keep singing--your duets are still resonating thru space and time.

hugs and prayers, Peggy

Sometimes
By Marcia Updyke
Sometimes,
Memories are like rain showers
Sprinkling down upon you
Catching you unaware.
And then they are gone,
Leaving you warm and refreshed.

Sometimes, Memories are like
thunderstorms
Beating down upon you,
Relentless in their downpour.
And then they will cease,
Leaving you tired and bruised.

Sometimes,
Memories are like shadows
Sneaking up behind you,
Following you around.
Then the disappear.
Leaving you sad and confused.

Sometimes.
Memories are like comforters
Surrounding you with warmth,
Luxuriously abundant.
And sometimes they stay,
Wrapping you in contentment.; April 16, 2010 at 6:31 AM
Anonymous said...: I just found your website. I am sorry to hear about your loss earlier this year. Hope you get through the holidays without to much pain...remember the good times.; November 22, 2010 at 8:22 AM